Loving More Than One

Although I've learned over the last few years that we have the ability to love more than one person at a time and that each of us may have many sole mates on different levels, what I've recently discovered is that although you can love several people simultaneously, it is difficult to juggle each relationship, give each person equal and deserving respect, while meeting their individual needs. In addition, when one relationship is not going well, the other relationships may suffer. This can put extreme pressure on all concerned. Is it worth it? Is there more value and fulfillment by loving and getting different things from different people or putting your energy into one person and taking that relationship to infinite levels of intimacy where you can meet each other needs? I wonder...

Living the magickal life,

Sage NightStar

Changing Changes

It has been a while since I posted my last blog. The past few months have been a time of reconsidering past decisions--one being to leave the Sisters of the Burning Branch for a short time while I pursued other goals, such as becoming a minister. I have returned to the Sisters of the Burning Branch because I found that I missed my sisters and all gifts they brought to my life. I also realized that with the right discipline, I can also work towards my ordination and other goals.

My health has been a bit of a struggle recently and changing doctors has been a move in the right direction to get proper diagnosis instead of just treating symptoms. My battle with cancer certainly left its mark, but thankfully I remain in remission.

My professional work has been a bit of a challenge simply because there are no common goals between local government and priviate entities with regards to the work I do. I have no control over this, and have deferred to a higher authority. Still, it is a good job with many benefits, including security.

I continue to write and managed to get published more frequently these days in the Wiccan and Pagan Community. This is where my heart is and I continue to build my life around the Craft.

Until next time...

Living the Magickal Life,

Sage NightStar